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Absence makes the heart grow…

but what does absinthe do for you? Some of you may know what I am talking about. If you don’t, it may be time to find the green fairy. No telling what it will make grow. Perhaps you could pull a rabbit out of your hat? So, my pets, how are you? Did my absence make the heart grow fonder?

growing fonder

growing fonder

Or are you a little sad? I know. I have been away quite a while. I totally enjoyed myself this summer. Ever since I moved to Florida I have been like a kid on my own playground. Beaches, sunshine, amusements parks, concerts and all around good times. I haven’t forgotten about you. No! How could I? I have just been a little distracted.

How the hell are you?

What naughtiness have you been involved with? I am anxious to hear all about it! I think a long, hard session of confession is much needed right about now. Nothing better then confession therapy, right?


That really wasn’t a question. I know we have so much to talk about and no doubt confess. I cannot wait to hear about all your sexcapdes! We can also go over the many reason why men are the weaker sex. That is always a sexy conversation for my subs and I! Be prepared to tell me how weak you are, and how weak you have been without me.

Until then just know that Mistress knows best. Soon you will see just what this Mistress knows and designates as best for you. hehe.

Can’t wait to talk to you all again!!!! xxoo


Crossdressing Caller

crossdressing caller

crossdressing caller

Here is a blog from one of my fav crossdressers…enjoy!

It is a curious thing. I often wondered how certain clothes can make a woman feel sexy. Are there any clothes that could make me feel sexy, as a man I mean? Yes, there are some clothes that make me look nice and decent. Yet… not like a sexy man.  How do clothes make a woman feel sexy as opposed to her own body?

I started calling Mistress because I have been alone an extremely long time. I never really felt sexy no matter how dressed up I got. Mistress started me off making me wear panties all the time. Slowly it moved to full on cross dressing. It has allowed me to think about what a woman goes through. It has allowed me to recognize when a woman is trying to feel sexy as opposed to be sexy.

I believe men want to be sexy in the eyes of woman as well. I know I do.  However, not everyone is made the same. It is an interesting thing that the only thing that has made me feel even remotely sexy is when Mistress has got me dressed up and posing for her.

Does this mean I am a crossdresser? No, not necessarily. But it does make cross dressing fun and interesting. Does this mean I don’t want to be a man any longer? Oh, absolutely not!  It just means I believe cross dressing can be fun for some people. It does not mean I have homosexual tendencies when looking at other men. I honestly cannot tell you if another man is sexy or not. I can only tell you if I believe a woman is sexy in my eyes. I am a crossdresser who loves women.

Overall, cross dressing can teach a person things about themselves as well as about what others may be going through.

Nicely done, my pet!

A chastity pets virgin attempt

A chastity pets virgin attempt

A chastity pets virgin attempt

This is my first blog for my Mistress! I will be writing about my first chastity cage experience from a male’s perspective. My mistress told me to write my blog since she was the first to hear about my chastity experience. She also had a good laugh at my expense and her chastity pets virgin attempt. It all starts with my mistress moving to a different home. While she was getting through the stresses of moving to different place, I had the stress of not being able to talking to her for 3 months which meant: no orgasm for me.

No orgasm!

Unfortunately I was not able to hold it any longer and I came 3 days before we had our session.  So as punishment she said I have to get my chastity device. Since I never had experience with purchasing a cage, I had asked my mistress if she had any suggestions. She told me to go to a site where they had chastity cages for sissies with smaller cocks because, embarrassingly that is what I have.

Teenie weenie

So I visited the site and followed the instructions on how to get the proper size for my manhood (hehe). i tell my mistress she owns it. Now she wants the beast caged. I did all the measurements and went to the chart to find out what size I need, and yes…my cock was small the size chart they had. I believe the mini was the smallest size they had which was only 138mm diameter. My measurement was 129mm!

That’s really small!

I didn’t want to give up and disappoint my Mistress so I called the company to see if they had smaller sizes. The sales person on the phone said I was able to order a 131mm which is the smallest anyone can order. I am the smallest penis size! So I purchased the cage and now waiting for it to come in with a combination lock so my Mistress can only know the code. And mistakes will never happen.

That’s right my pet! ~fingers crossed~

Female led relationship

Female led relationships

Female led relationships

Hello my pets! Aaahhhh….the female led relationship. Just as the Goddess intended it to be! We all know who wears the pants in our family here and we all know we wouldn’t have it any other way! Obviously, if you are in this type of relationship, it is exactly what you need. And if you are entertaining the idea? Oh honey, no question this is what you need!

you probably crave it

If I could sit down with the female population I could certainly educate them! Oh the power they possess. A plethora of female domination! But then I would be out of job. But the smart ones learned early. Just like the song says….”city girls just seem to find out early, how to open doors with just a smile”. you know that smile. The one that simply melts you.

So being controlled by Mistress is the answer for you. Let me just take the pressure off you and ease your burden. I know what you need. I am happy to tell you what to do and how to do it. That is easy for me, so know that it will be hard for you. Very, very hard for you.

I have the answers

you just need to learn that Mistress knows best  and fully embrace that. For most of you, that is a easy grip. For the rest of you, get a grip. Know that the female led relationship is one that is far superior then any you have ever had before.

Are you ready to be led?

I know you are sitting there nodding your head. That’s the first step. Now call me for the rest of the steps and … the rest of your life.

MMIA-or Mistress missing in Action

Mistress Missing in Action

Mistress Missing in Action

Hello my pets! How the hell are you? I know, I know…I have been a MMIA (Mistress missing in action) and I have missed your action! What can I say? Now stop pouting and I will explain. As you know, I have been here taking care of your kinkiness for 10 years. 10 years! I have loved it and enjoyed every minute. But since I have moved to sunny Florida, I have been like a kid in a candy shop! So many sensual treats to enjoy and divulge myself in, and so little time to do it!

Not burnt out, just simmering

After 10 years I still enjoy all your calls, questions and guiding you through the sexual adventures you have had, or hope to have, or strictly have in fantasy. It gets me off getting you off. Or denying you, and prompting you to seek other creative ways of release.

But now that I live someplace that has so many activities and the best weather to perform these activities, I am afraid I have been … distracted. Getting settled into a new place, let alone a new state, takes some getting used to! I have been going to the beach, exploring my new town, amusement parks that really do amuse me, and decorating.



I have missed you!

I realize some of you may not be forgiving, and missed my constant attention. But I would not have been true to myself if I had ignored the call of the Ocean, or the lure of warm evenings out with friends. I would have suffered a huge burn out then, so this respite has been very good for all of us.

In 10 years I have gotten my Bachelorett’s degree, worked through some health issues, suffered personal loss. Some of you helped me through every step of the way and gave me healing words of comfort.  I have been your confidente and shared your life’s ups and downs. I hope to continue with that, but right now I have cut loose a bit and am living life.

Some of you think I have a love interest, and to that I said…HELL NO! I am waaaay too independent and happy to have that nonsense. Besides, I have you for that.  Its simple: For 10 years I have worked hard, and got you hard. I didn’t take much time away for myself and now…I am.

But soon I will be here more often. Just watch for the flowing tide and I’ll come swimming. Or, you can email a request for an appointment and we can see who gets wet. xxoo




A chastity pet tells all!

chastity pet

Hello pets! One of my long term chastity pets asked if he could share his story with you. I was like…Hell, yes! It may just be the 1st time he got a “yes” from these Mistress lips! I hope this encourages anyone out there considering chastity to actually step . . . → Read More: A chastity pet tells all!

Do you want to know a secret?

Do you wanna know a secret

Do you promise not to tell? I have been out fro-licking and carrying on and enjoying myself… and others. That’s what sexy sensual Mistresses do, right? I am just so happy in my new casa that I have been getting to know the area and totally enjoying . . . → Read More: Do you want to know a secret?

How are my pets?

How are you my pets?

How are you, my pets? Have you been behaving? I doubt that. Have you missed me? Yes, I know. I have had some major life changes and honestly…I have been working a long time and it was nice to just kind of enjoy myself and have some Mistress . . . → Read More: How are my pets?

Mistress spring fling!

Mistress spring fling

Hello my pets! I just wanted to fill you in a few goings on with me. I know I have not been around, but I have been moving boxes because I like to think outside the box, and you should be thinking happily about my box right about now. The . . . → Read More: Mistress spring fling!



This sounds alot like “dickhead”, one of my favorite words while driving. Butt that is a whole different story/blog. Not to make light of your proclivity to whatever gets you off, excited or over the top. Silly me, I am the one on top. Scratch that. So, we all have our quirks . . . → Read More: aDICKted